I’m trying to get my feet back on the ground after a stretching season, so today, a re-post from 4 years ago.
I ran into a 23-year-old friend the other day and asked how she was doing. “Being in your twenties is…awkward!” she answered. “All these questions about what you’re going to do with your life…who you’ll be, where you’ll go…what to say ‘yes’ to.”
That same day I had coffee with a fifty-something friend who said her son is wrestling with some of the same unsettledness, and she herself is in a time of transition that has raised questions about God’s direction. She said, “I thought by this age I’d have it figured out and be cruising along!”
24 hours earlier I had had dinner with a thirty-something friend who said, “My life looks a lot different now than I thought it would.”
Each person’s situation was different, but there was a common theme. If I were God (a job that’s apparently already taken) I’d give detailed instructions like:
“Susan, I want you to move to 673 Elm St., Provo Utah, join the Church-of-People-on-the-Right-Track, take the job with State Farm, (not General Mills), and order the tomato soup at Panera for lunch.”
And sometimes in the Bible God does that, like when God gives Ananias specific instructions (Acts 9:11) to go to the house of Judas on the street called Straight, (Love it!), but often it’s a bit fuzzier, like in Acts 15:28 where Paul writes, “It seemed good to us and the Holy Spirit…”
When I’m in seasons of discernment and transition, the three words that I feel like God often whispers to me are “Open your hands”
- Open your hands…to release your plans in favor of God’s. Acknowledge your dreams, but don’t clutch them. Release them to God to change, add, refine…
- Open your hands…to receive counsel from wise advisors who know you well, but don’t clutch it either.
- Open your hands…to use what God has put in them, whether that seems like saying “yes” to dramatic invitations, or something that seems very small and quiet. Respond to what God has put right in front of you.
That’s just me. What has been helpful to you when making life decisions? What have you sensed God whispering to you?